Erotic massage is one of the most luxurious forms of & # 39; foreplay & # 39; there is. Prepare to have sex – whatever "sex" you mean, whether it's fingering, oral or penetrating) should not just mean you're having sex as if you were 16. Erotic massage is the perfect way to make physical and emotional contact, and to turn someone on.

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Lovehoney sex expert Annabelle Knight explains how you can give a super sexy erotic massage. Whatever you do afterwards is entirely up to you …

Why give a sensual massage?

"The majority of our daily communication is non-verbal and body language plays a big role in the way we communicate and understand other people," says Annabelle. "It should therefore be logical that massage, one of the most intimate types of touch, is a good way to communicate with your loved one Any stroking, stroke and rubbing can be used to say something of & # 39; I adore your body & # 39; up & # 39; I hope you have had a good day at work & # 39 ;. "

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So while massage is great of course, because it relieves tension and relieves physical pain, it can also help to unblock their minds, because they focus less on the pain and the stress associated with them, Annabelle adds. Whether you decide to give their entire body some attention, or just their hands or back, here is what you need to prepare yourself.

The right atmosphere

You do not need a huge flat or extra bedroom to give an erotic massage, as long as the space you have is beautiful and relaxed (and comfortable). Whether you're planning to massage your partner in your bedroom or living room, as long as you bring the atmosphere down, you're ready to go.

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Temperature. "To help set the mood, you may want to start by warming up the space first," suggests Annabelle. Since your partner is likely to be naked (or at least half-naked), you want to ensure that the environment is as comfortable as possible. Lighting. "You will also want to dim the light or light a few candles, so hard lighting can be an uncomfortable distraction during massage, so bring a little romance with a few Christmas lights or candles."

Accessories that you need

Massage lotion "One of the most important parts of your massage is a slippery oil or lotion that lets your hands slide over their bodies and makes their skin feel smooth and nourished," she says. You could use regular massage oil, but if you work on your partner with a peelable massage oil, you know that it is safe to come into contact with more sensitive parts of the body.Cosmopolitan UK recommends SHOP NOW DONA with pheromone infused massage oil lift set, Lovehoney, £ 14.99

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"Pour some oil on your palms and rub gently to warm the lotion before laying your hands over your lover's body in sensual, long strokes," she says.
"If you use a massage candle, light the wick and if the wax melts, the candle will turn into a warm liquid that can be poured safely on the skin for a fragrant massage." Massage candles are great to set the candle mood. and add a little ceremony to your sensual massage experience. "You can also try a massage stone if you are not too sure of your massage. SOP NOW Jimmyjane Contour M Massager Stone, Lovehoney, £ 18.99

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Feeling away

Regardless of which body part you are going to massage, there are techniques that can be used almost anywhere. "Make sure you do not press too hard, or cause pain when you give the massage," advises Annabelle. "Take the time to check in with your partner to find out which parts they like the most."First touch. She says, "The first few times you touch something, it must be long, persistent, and purposeful." Psychologically solid contact will reassure your partner and give them a secure feeling (think of how a strong handshake impresses a business partner).Apply the massage oil / lotion. This will warm up their skin. "Your hands should be flat, but your fingers should be relaxed so that they can be spread and the natural contours of your partner's body can follow."

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Hand reach. You may be inclined to massage intensely and deeply, but the opposite can be more exciting and exciting. Annabelle recommends: "Use your fingertips to follow the contours of your partner's body, pull your fingers through their hair, let them glide gently down their fingers, or follow the smooth curves of their lips with your thumbs. you can move your touch from one part of the body to another. "Kneading thumbs. "By pushing the thumbs against the body, kneading and rolling, this is a great way to tighten the muscles in the muscles," she adds. "Press your thumbs against each part of the body and take them away from you with confidence, using the full extension of your thumbs, by moving each thumb one by one, you get an uninterrupted rolling sensation that really pulls the buttons and tight spots, especially well on the back, shoulders, feet and thighs. "So that you should firmly in the zone to bring it from" massage "to" erotic massage ". What you do next is entirely up to you, but if you want to pull the tension and sexual tension even longer, there are some amazing things you can do without penetration.