Strapless dildo advice and the best sex toy

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We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this articleIf you are a woman or a person with a vagina that has sex with other people with the same anatomy, a strapless dildo is a legitimate sex toy option for you. They offer internal stimulation (and sometimes clitoris) for both partners. They can be a bit tricky to use. Sexual expert Cecile Sharpe explains everything you need to know about using a strapless dildo.

Do not skip cone-day (aka, every day)

Unlike strap-ons – which are literally tied to the body of the wearer with the aid of a harness – a strapless strap-on has a shaft or 'pony'. which is inserted into the vagina and held in place with the pelvic floor of the wearer (also known as pubococcygeal, PC or cone) muscles. This can take some getting used to, especially when you add lubricant, gravity and movement to the mix.


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The pelvic floor responds very well to a training, so if you already practice your cone muscles, chances are good that you are good to go. If that is not the case, we recommend that you regularly squeeze-and-relax sessions or invest in a few cone balls like this Main Squeeze 60g set. You should handle that double-third effortlessly before you know it.

What is your type?

Although strapless strap-ons all follow the same design (two axes, one worn internally by the wearer and one used to penetrate the recipient vaginally or anal), there are many variations to choose from. Some, such as the Double Wow Strapless Strap-On, have a small, textured lamp for the wearer, which provides a powerful G-spot stimulation.


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Others, such as the Desire Strapless Strap-On, have a longer, heavier fringe that should be held in place more easily – plus extra girth and length means a satisfying & # 39; full-up & # 39; feeling for the wearer. For the receiver, a veiny shaft made of real-feel material creates schlong-like sensations, while a smooth, silicone shaft satisfies those who want penetration without the appearance of a carrot.


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Some vibrate for great tandem stimulation, while others have textured stimulators or rabbit ears to caress the wearer's clitoris. Adjustable versions such as the Double Delight adjustable strapless strap-on allow you to place both axes at an angle for optimal stimulation.


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Let things slide

Lube can make satisfying sex into sweaty leaf-leafy species, so if you do not have a bottle, we recommend that you buy one as soon as possible. Whether you use your toy to penetrate someone vaginally or anally, coating the shaft with a water-based lubricant of good quality will provide improved sensations and a smooth ride for the recipient.
If you are the wearer, it is best to use a little lubricant and add more as and when you need it – if you are too harsh with the slippery stuff, you might find it harder to get stuck to grab on the pony.

Kissing talking

If you feel like introducing a new sex activity, you must both be on board. As comfortable as you are with each other in the sexual field, whipping up a double dong without warning can be a bit intimidating for your partner. Hopefully you have already had a chat about the kind of things you want to try, but if that is not the case, it is best to be clear, honest and open with each other. Before you participate in any form of penetrative sex, it is important to make sure you are both relaxed, warmed up and happy. Foreplay increases anticipation and excitement, and should make penetration more natural and smoother – whether it's stroking, oral play, or building up to penetration with a toy or finger.

It is very important that you also communicate with your partner while playing. We are not talking about commenting here (unless that is what you feel like). But if you are the giver, you should respond to verbal and non-verbal signals, and make sure your partner is happy with the pace and depth of your punches. Do not forget to check in if the game has ended. The receiving? Make sure you tell your partner what feels good (or does not feel).

Pose

Now for the fun things. In short, you have the whole Kama Sutra to choose from when it comes to positions, but if you are absolute beginners, you may want to choose a position where gravity causes fewer problems. The best position to keep those frustrating glide moments to a minimum is a receiver on top, with the wearer lying on his back. The wearer can then pinch his legs to hold the dildo in place, while the receiver controls the depth and pace.

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Do you think you defy gravity? Wicked. Positions as doggy and carrier at the top may require more exercise, but the wearer can always wear a pair of harness clips (choose those that are compatible with a strapless strap-on, like this one) for extra support and control over the belt -op.
And if you need a helping hand with your sexual positions, try the position of the sex position to improve the wedge or pillow. Yes, these are incredible additions to every sexual act because they hold you more firmly in place. Send a legitimate god.

Practice makes perfect

If you are the wearer and you worry about being bumping energetically and hurting your partner or are unable to hold the dildo in you, try to wear your toy first if you are alone. The more you become accustomed to feeling within yourself, the more self-confidence you will feel when you are with your partner. In addition, the more you practice while holding the pony in your body and grabbing your pelvic floor to grab it, the more your muscles will & # 39; remember & # 39; to clamp around when you enter your partner.